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Happiness keeps u Sweet,
Trials keep u Strong,
and Sorrow keeps u Human,
Failure Keeps u Humble,
Success keeps u Glowing,
But only God Keeps u Going.....
Keep Going.....
Friday, July 10, 2009
Hi all,
came across this article in TODAY on 6 July 09 and would like to share it with you guys.
FOCUS ON THE FAMILY BY DR JAMES DOBSON
THE TEST OF TIME
If you want to know whether or not you're really in love, give it the test of time. Infactuation is the name we give to that first bright burst of attraction between the two people. Its sets our pulses racing and makes us think of clouds and fireworks, as well as stories that end in "happily ever after".
There's no doubt infactuation looks and feels very much like love; the only problem is, it doesn't last. It's a quick, emotional high, with no commitment behind it. And when it runs its course, we find ourselves back where we started, with little or nothing to show for the experience. How then can we distinguish real love from temporary attraction? If the feeling is unrealiable, how can we measure the commitment of the will? There's only one answer: It takes time. The best advice i can offer a couple contemplating marriage, or any other important issue, is make no important life shaping decisions quickly or impulsively.
Measure your motivation carefully, Give your emotions a chance to evolve and oscillate. If your love is real, it can handle the wait, and your relationship will be stronger for the seasoning of an hurried foundation.
came across this article in TODAY on 6 July 09 and would like to share it with you guys.
FOCUS ON THE FAMILY BY DR JAMES DOBSON
THE TEST OF TIME
If you want to know whether or not you're really in love, give it the test of time. Infactuation is the name we give to that first bright burst of attraction between the two people. Its sets our pulses racing and makes us think of clouds and fireworks, as well as stories that end in "happily ever after".
There's no doubt infactuation looks and feels very much like love; the only problem is, it doesn't last. It's a quick, emotional high, with no commitment behind it. And when it runs its course, we find ourselves back where we started, with little or nothing to show for the experience. How then can we distinguish real love from temporary attraction? If the feeling is unrealiable, how can we measure the commitment of the will? There's only one answer: It takes time. The best advice i can offer a couple contemplating marriage, or any other important issue, is make no important life shaping decisions quickly or impulsively.
Measure your motivation carefully, Give your emotions a chance to evolve and oscillate. If your love is real, it can handle the wait, and your relationship will be stronger for the seasoning of an hurried foundation.
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